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RK,

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Thank-you

RK,

After leaving the office, I thought more about your situation on my way home and came up with some more thoughts and potential hopes I wanted to share with you.

Given the situation you and your wife are in, you may now have the upper hand in being a soldier for your wife. In some domestic violence cases, but not many, the abuser changes through the assistance of counselling and sometimes with the outcome of criminal, domestic violence charges.

I have seen cases wherein the abuser (your wife) promises to change if the victim (yourself) returns to reside with the abuser. More often then not, this is due to a real love (in marrages).

Not all abusers really love their victims. A great number of domestic violence victims are not married to their abuser. A great number of offenders are offenders due to a need or desire to controll.

In the cases I have seen wherein the parties are married, there is a much greater chance the abuser will change their ways and live a happy life with the victim. I personally believe this is because of their serious commitment made when they were married.

Abusers aren't evil, nor is what they do good. I know a former abuser who has dedicated a great deal of his time assisting this office and the Task Force Investigations, Domestic Violence Unit. This individual has confidentiality so I cannot tell you his name, but he has assisted us a great deal. With his assistance and co-operation, we have been able to cross reference his experience and testimony with that of other information retrieved through interviews and research.

I can work with you on this if you wish. Just e-mail my unit and include the user name you use here if you would like my help or assistance. My assistance is free of charge with no catches or tricks. I and other volunteers whom use this system or user name do what we do for free, period. My unit's e-mail address is:

efficient.pi@taskforceinvestigations.com

All information in this site, offered by this agency or any of it's affiliates, employees or units is strictly friendly conversation, cander and or stipulation. For official recommendations, advice or services, please contact efficient.pi@taskforceinvestigations.com or by posting a reply in a private message on this internet site. If you are in immidiate need of assistance in a domestic violence situation, we officially suggest calling 911 or going directly to a police station or domestic violence center for assistance. If you don't know what resources are available, we officially suggest you contact your local police department for information, wom will give you the information without you providing your name or any other details.

Rick,

First, I would like to thank you for contacting us and sharing your situation publically on this site. You have shown others, women arn't the only victims of domestic violence. Furthermore, I would like to commend you on your restraint. Biologically, it is harder for a man not to retaliate when assaulted.

In regard to your request for advice on what to do in court, I first would stongly recommend you get a copy of the order instructing your wife to ne evaluated. In the event the judge had made this a suggestion, I urge yout to get the transcripts from that hearing. You can get this by going to the court clerk's office in the courthouse you were seen in.

Second, I would recommend getting a child psycologist to your place of residence when the children are there on the weekends. The psycologist can be an expert witness at any trial or hearing and an incredibly valuable asset in a victory. You may be able to get this for free by contacting the same agency you visited, as mentioned in your message to us.

Third, it seems a little odd, considering the circumstances in which you left with your two boys, you left your daughter with her mother. However, I am not aware based on your report, of any risk to the new baby. Perhaps this is why?

I think it would also benefit you to contact child protective services. I feel they may be able to help you in many ways for free. The agents at your local child protective service office have pleanty of experience interviewing people and being able to tell if they are lying.

We would be happy to assist you in this matter, however, we don't have any funding available for investigative support at this time. If you are able to pay for the service or if you think you know a company or church whom can sponsor the investigation, let us know.

Also, if you would like us to try finding sponsors for you let us know.

Otherwise, please don't hesitate to contact us for advice or other assistance, here on this site or via e-mail.

Thank-you

All information in this site, offered by this agency or any of it's affiliates, employees or units is strictly friendly conversation, cander and or stipulation. For official recommendations, advice or services, please contact efficient.pi@taskforceinvestigations.com or by posting a reply in a private message on this internet site. If you are in immidiate need of assistance in a domestic violence situation, we officially suggest calling 911 or going directly to a police station or domestic violence center for assistance. If you don't know what resources are available, we officially suggest you contact your local police department for information, wom will give you the information without you providing your name or any other details.

Greetings.

We wanted to post to you after reading some of your blogs here.

We provide the following and more. We understand your frustration in regard to people who are deservant of assistance having a hard time getting it as well the frustration of seeing those who can help critisising those who need it.

We as well as others here have been taken advantage of and have also learned from it. Many persons whom can help are selective of whom we assist because we cannot help everyone, therefore need to be sure the recipient is deserving of our assistances.

Nonetheless, we (efficient PI) are here to help. Please post a message to us privately or instruct any other person to do the same if they are in need of any assistance listed in the link above.

May God bless and keep you,

Efficient PI Staff

#8096

Please let us know if we can be of assistance.

Greetings Amy,

I wonder if you've found the help you were looking for. Efficient PI is a group of professionals, here to help. Click here for a list of some things we can do for you.

Also, we may be able to help you, if you're still having trouble with your abusive ex. Learn more here: http://www.taskforceinvestigations.com/DomesticViolenceTF.html

If there is anything we can do for you, don't hesitate to privately message us.

• Efficient PI started out as a screen name on the Aidpage.com web site. On the Aidpage site, the director of this agency would offer information uncovered, throughout the course of his daily duties and investigations to individuals in need of food, housing and other miscellaneous assistances. Efficient PI quickly grew into an association of professionals working toward a common goal of public assistance, addressing the interests and needs of the community served.
• Once the name of Efficient PI became known on the internet, the director of this agency incorporated the service into the product/service line of Task Force Investigations as a free/ contribution/donation reliant service. We received many suggestions of including domestic violence relief services and other publicly beneficial services as a supplement to what is already available.

More: http://www.taskforceinvestigations.com/DomesticViolenceTF.html

First of all, I believe happiness is a way of life and not a destination.

However, what was done is an evil act. I realize and respect you have been traumatized by this event, but minimizing this situation will not bring closure. I agree, your brother may have had an un-discovered mental illness and would attribute this act to that illness.

I do not intend to make waves in this post, rather, I intend to assit in the pursuit of closure. I truely feel for you and hope you can realize, although your brother did this, you are not pre-disposed to repeat this. You are who you strive to be. I would wager, based upon your post and confusion, you are a good person in search of yourself after this tragic event.

The staff of Efficient PI is dedicated to assisting those in need and offering advice as requested it's applicants for service.

Below, grams1 has given better information and such a long post of resources I could not compete. If you do find the information is useless, let me know and I'll find alternatives.

We, in this department hope to be contacted by grams1 to see what involvement the individual would be interested in with our service. The information offered is extensive and invaluable to our cause.

I wish you the best and hope you'll contact us privately if you need anything further.

Efficient PI, Support Staff

Now that I think of it, I may have some resources to assist you in opening your non-profit. If you would like to discuss this more, message us privately.

First, if your car was reposessed without paperwork you should call the police.

I suggest this for two reasons:

1) If there was no paperwork drafted, it is possible the situation can be labeled an auto theft. (I'll research the repo laws in KY after posting this.

2) If the repo was done legally, the police will require proof.

I am happy to help with getting the forms you seek.

About me: http://taskforceinvestigations.com/EfficientPI.html

Excellent information as always! Keep up the good work.

I had wished you a Happy Thanksgiving on the 'other site', but because of the other text and a reference to this site, it was deleted.

Hope to see you around.

First to Wllmm;

Respectfully, I think your comment was a little harsh. BK works out different for all, however you do have a point in that the claim of garnishment is hard to swollow. With this woman not being the one who filed for BK, she may not be fully aware of the situation. It is possible her sister is paying off her debt to get out of BK, we don't know the whole situation.

MAMAJESS,

Humbly I ask, if this is your sister, are you helping her? I don't inted to be harsh, but I typically look to family for assistance before 'outsiders' and visa versa. I think it's great you're here trying to help your sister, but I am just curious.

Irrigardless, if you are willing to buy your sister an inexpensive tree, the rest is not hard to obtain. I as well as another very resourceful member (Storm) are here to help guide you.

If your sister would like to open an account with this web site, ask her to contact me via private message, and perhaps I can assist in guiding her back to stability.

My page is here: http://efficient-pi.aidpage.com/about.htm

Greetings, I saw your profile and hope to be able to help. I agree with you in regard to the system not helping responsible people. Anyway, I would like to discuss your needs and see what we can do to help you. We do not help with cash, but we can help you locate help. If you would like to work with me, please message me privately.

Greetings,

I was roaming around the site and saw you were trying to locate a deadbeat dad, am I right in this assumption? Well however redundant the question, I think I might be able to help.

Child support enforcement is lazy, but what would we expect from our government? lol.

What you can do is file for child support and ask for the summons he is to be served with. Tell the person you'll have him served.

I can attempt to locate him for free, which should not be a problem, but the service of papers would probibly cost. If I were in your area, I might be able to do it for free, but your too far away. lol.

If you have filed for child support, you qualify for cash assistance with the state as well as health insurance and food stamps(SNAP).

Christmas:

For christmas items, I suggest going to your local salvation army as soon as possible as christmas draws closer. You may also try your local Catholic Charities office or Diocese. Be sure to bring with you; social security cards and birth certificates for your children as well as a state issued photo ID.

To All:

I typically help people in private messages because of the detail I get into. Please don't hesitate to message me privately.

Greetings,

I'm sorry I've been away for a while. I would like to be of assistance, but I typically help in private messages as the conversations I have sometimes include personal and identifying information. You'll not see many public posts in my name.

I am willing to help whomever I can, but for those who don't know me, I don't help with money. I assist people in finding the help they need. I can provide information on services and such, but it is your responsability to follow-up with the agencies I give information on.

Also, I do this in my free time. I operate a national investigations agency which is how I have learned of the services available to the public, but is also why I ask that if someone contacts me for assistance and does not get a reply within 48 hours, please message me again.

Happy Holidays!

Thank you for your concern Mr Deeds. I am very busy with my company and have neglected my blog. I continue to assist people when I can, but because I need to ask for personal information to aquire the best assistances for members, I mainly communicate via private messages.

How have you been?

lol. I can't be run off, I'm too stubborn. lol.